。純粹。

話說  最近我比較稍微常在學校了
                                                                               
偶而會去博班研究室跟學姐們聊天
                                                                               
                                                                               
上一次跟他們閒聊才發現  學姐們都已經30歲or以上了！
                                                                               
其中一大部分結婚了  一部分生孩子了
                                                                               
像我這種沒結婚又沒生孩子的算少數...
                                                                               
（不過我們所上男生也不少   增加許多未婚人數）
                                                                               
                                                                               
ps. 隨著「博班媽媽」的人數越來越多，我們院管已經設立一間「哺乳室」了！
                                                                               
    學姐說：「是因為我們都在研究室擠奶，大家受不了了跟院上反應所以才設的嗎？」
                                                                               
   「你看那台，就是擠奶機啊！是最近剛生的XX學姐帶來的。」
                                                                               
   (好驚人的研究室...想像一下一次三四個女研究生在那裡邊擠奶邊聊天...XDDD)
                                                                               
                                                                               
那天大家一開始在講某個學姐的老公很優
                                                                               
都不會對她管東管西  給她超大的自由
                                                                               
交往7年之後，到現在結婚9年了，沒生小孩也沒壓力
                                                                               
老公不急，公婆也不催，還說想讀書就去讀沒關係～
                                                                               
平常她想去哪裡就去哪裡，完全不用回報，
                                                                               
想穿怎樣、想買什麼，都隨她去。
                                                                               
我們學姐沒時間整理家裏，她老公也就讓她亂～
                                                                                                                                 
整個超happy~!!
                                                                               
                                                                               
後來話題就莫名其妙轉到「結婚」這檔子事
                                                                               
其中一個學姐說她跟前男友原本論及婚嫁
                                                                               
但因為男友大她7歲  她的父母很不想讓她嫁年紀差那麼多的  最後就沒嫁
                                                                               
（因為女生父母怕如果女兒的老公早逝  留下很老的公婆跟很小的孩子  很糟）
                                                                               
                                                                               
然後又講到「生孩子」
                                                                               
一個學姐去年7月剛生完，極力支持我們趁年輕快點生
                                                                               
一來，是怕年紀大了要生要養都很累
                                                                               
        假設40歲才生孩子  要能養到他獨立  還要多工作到至少63歲
                                                                               
        前提是你不用供應他讀研究所 （爸我對不起你～><）
二來，因為唸博班壓力很大，我們有很多學姐半年才來一次生理期，
                                                                               
        有人是一直都很不規則，有些是都靠吃藥才睡得著。
                                                                               
                                                                               
媽阿～明年的這個時候該不會我已經停經了...............= =
                                                                               
是不是該現在開始買黃體素吃了？